Wednesday, April 10, marked the peaceful passing of Jay Vitale in the comfort of his home, surrounded by his loving family.
Jay was a true Renaissance man, deeply devoted to his family, and a proud resident of Garrison for many years. Born on Dec. 17, 1935, to Italian and Greek heritage in the Bronx, Jay’s upbringing as a city kid was filled with cherished memories. He often regaled others with tales of racing pigeons alongside his father, summers spent swimming at Orchard Beach, and spirited games of stickball with his cousins.
Following his enlistment in the Army during the Korean War, Jay found himself stationed in Hawaii, where he embarked on unforgettable adventures. From mastering the art of sailing, to fearlessly swimming with sharks, one of his most memorable encounters was meeting the iconic Elizabeth Taylor.
Yet, amid life’s myriad experiences, Jay’s heart found its truest contentment when he settled in Garrison in the early 1980s. A skilled carpenter, he undertook the monumental task of building his own home from the ground up. Living out of his VW bus for over a year, he banged nails each day after working a full day at Haldane Maintenance. Jay dedicated himself tirelessly to crafting every corner of his beloved abode. The pride he felt in the home he meticulously constructed was unparalleled, a testament to his unwavering determination and craftsmanship.
Jay’s passion for his community knew no bounds, and his commitment to conservation efforts left an enduring impact. Inspired by the memory of his dear friend John Guinan, Jay founded the nonprofit organization Guinan’s Aurora, dedicated to repurposing donated bikes for veterans and children in need. Over the years, he distributed over 1,000 bikes across the state, including his old neighborhood in the Bronx, spreading joy and mobility to those who needed it most.
Above all else, Jay cherished his family with boundless love and devotion. For 48 years, he shared a deeply fulfilling partnership with his beloved wife, Toni Vitale. He leaves behind Toni, his adoring daughter Jessica, son-in-law Chris, and his three doted grandchildren — Julian, Lucca and Ivy.
A private memorial for family and friends will follow later in the summer. In place of flowers, a donation to the Alzheimer’s Association (bit.ly/jay-vitale) would be appreciated.
Although I did not know Jay personally, I heard about his wonderful work recycling bicycles for veterans and children. It is especially sad to lose someone who made such a special contribution to the benefit of others. Rest in peace.
Indeeed, Jay was a Renaissance man. I will miss him and his wonderful stories. And the memories I have of him, I will cherish always! To Toni, Jessica, Chris and family: My heart is broken for you. Sending you an abundance of love and light during this very difficult time.
Thank you for your kind words. Jay loved his work with Guinan’s Aurora.
We spent countless hours discussing world events, food, traditions and military experiences while sitting at the Garrison Yacht Club dock with Brian, Jay and myself, with lots of drinks and great food on the grill. Fond memories! Jay will be greatly missed.
Toni and family, my sincere condolences to you and your family. Rest in peace, Jay.
What a beautiful testimonial! We were privileged to have known him! Our sincere condolences to you — Toni, Jessica and family. We know how much he will be missed.
Toni and family: My condolences, and holding the memories from those 40 some odd years ago. Much love.
I met Jay last spring. He was a kind and gifted soul with a winning smile and tender wit. His presence will be missed. Toni, Jessica, Chris, Julian, Lucca, Ivy, extended family and community I wish your hearts a gentle mending.
Thank you, Deborah, Linda and Ron and Judy, for your kind words. Ron and Judy, thanks for sharing the great times Jay spent at the club and the great conversations you and Jay shared. Makaria, Jay loved doing his work with Guinan’s Aurora and only had to stop with the loss of his vision.
So sorry, Toni.
Rest in eternal peace, good, brilliant and extraordinarily generous man! Being around Jay was always a joy, and discussions on any topic were always an education. Lunches at the Riverview Restaurant with Jay were always a special treat. Jay loved sharing stories of his early struggles and triumphs.
I loved, respected and adored Jay and Toni from the first time I met them. I don’t recall where that was exactly, but probably at Guinan’s in the late 1990s, early 2000s.
If there is a place where decent human beings who put others before themselves go, then Jay is there now, playing a loving role in the betterment of the universe. I’m sure as hell happy and feeling very blessed that I had the very good fortune of knowing you, Jay. You made a positive difference in the lives of so many.